Hello Beautiful soul!
At some point in our lives, we’ve all been there—caught between the decision to stay in our comfort zone or to brave the uncertainty that comes with change. Whether it’s an unfulfilling job, an unhealthy relationship, or a city that no longer feels like home, we all have our reasons for remaining anchored in situations that we know, deep down, we should leave. But what is it that holds us back from taking that leap?
We all know this place, the silent battlefield that exists within each one of us. Perhaps you’re there right now, standing on the precipice, your heart aching with the heavy knowledge that you’re not where you’re meant to be.
You’ve probably felt it—that suffocating feeling, like you’re a bird trying to fly in a cage too small. You flutter and strive, your wings brushing the bars that confine you. You long to spread your wings and soar into the sky, your heart yearning for a space that matches the immensity of your dreams. This feeling, this deep, gut-wrenching feeling is not just a whisper—it’s a roar from within that scream ‘more’—you were made for more, you can have more, you deserve more.
And yet, despite this loud, inner protest, you find yourself stuck, rooted to the spot. The world continues to spin around you, but you, you are frozen in time, locked within a moment that has overstayed its welcome. You ask yourself, “What’s holding me back?”
This is not a rhetorical question, but a sincere, soul-searching plea for understanding. Why do we stay rooted in situations that stifle our spirit? What invisible chains bind us, trapping us in a reality we no longer belong to? This struggle is a shared human experience, an intricate dance between our longing for growth and the comfort of familiarity.
You’ve felt this invisible pull, the silent battle between the yearning for more and the comfort of the known. It’s a struggle, one that delves deep into the fabric of our fears, societal expectations, emotional investments. It’s a struggle that deserves to be understood because hidden within this understanding lies the key to our freedom.
Recognizing the existence of this struggle is the first step on the path to understanding and, ultimately, liberation. It’s a courageous act of introspection to confront the fears, uncertainties, and deeply seated ingrained habits that often hold us hostage and imprison us within our comfort zones
This journey of exploration is not one you’re embarking on alone. This shared human struggle connects us, threads of empathy weaving us together. Let’s delve deep, let’s courageously turn the spotlight on these invisible forces that hold us back from embracing the change we yearn for.
You’re not alone. You’re part of a silent chorus, voices around the world resonating with your feelings, your struggles, your yearning.
Let’s connect deeply with our shared experiences, and together, we will find the keys to unlock our chains and fly freely towards the life we deserve.
We’re in this together. And together, we can confront these daunting questions, fuel our courage to embrace change, and learn to dance to the rhythm of our own desires.
Recognizing the Fear: The Monster Under Our Beds
The journey to change often begins with confronting an old, familiar foe: fear. But what are we really afraid of? The answer to that lies in our limited beliefs, those silent scripts that play in the back of our minds, dictating our thoughts and actions. Fear is typically about the future, the unknown, the ‘what-ifs’ that cloud our minds with uncertainty.
Isn’t it peculiar that we fear what doesn’t yet exist? It’s as if we’re children again, terrified of the imaginary monster under our beds. This type of fear—dreading the unseen tomorrow—is surprisingly common. In fact, it’s so prevalent that it’s become a socially acceptable form of ‘insanity’. But, does it make sense to fear the nonexistent? To allow the hypothetical horrors of tomorrow to rob today of its peace?
The root of this problem lies in our tendency to get lost in the labyrinth of our minds. We often find ourselves entangled in an intricate web of narratives, dramas, and scenarios spun by our own thoughts. Instead of living in the moment, we become prisoners of our conjured future, missing out on the beauty of life unfolding before us, right here, right now.
Turning Inwards: The Power of Realization
The moment we understand that the fear gripping us is our own creation, a profound shift occurs. Suddenly, we’re not at the mercy of external circumstances anymore; the spotlight turns inward. Our fear, once an ominous specter looming in the shadows, is unmasked and revealed to be of our own making.
This realization can initially seem daunting. After all, it’s easier to blame external factors for our fears and setbacks than to acknowledge our part in creating them. However, once the initial discomfort fades, we’re left with a powerful understanding: if we’re the architects of our fear, we also have the power to dismantle it.
Rather than casting blame outward, we find ourselves holding the reins. It’s a transformative shift, the kind that nudges us out of the role of the victim and into that of the creator. Now, the responsibility is ours. It’s up to us to confront our fears, to untangle the web of our limited beliefs, to rewrite the narratives that no longer serve us.
And yet, there’s an undeniable sense of relief in this responsibility. There’s no one else to blame, no external force controlling our emotions. It’s all us. We can take control; we can shape our experience. We can learn, grow, and gradually dismantle the fear that once seemed so formidable. It’s within us, the power to face our fears and rewrite the stories of our lives.
Conquering Our Fears: Reach Out for Support
While this journey of self-discovery and transformation is deeply personal, remember that you don’t have to tread this path alone.
In the quest for personal transformation, the speed and precision often matter. Trust me I know that by experience.
I’ve been in the trenches, just like you. I know the visceral feeling of yearning for more, the heavy burden of the fears and limited beliefs that you’re grappling with. I understand the eagerness to be seen, to be heard, to find help to navigate towards the life you’ve always imagined for yourself.
My journey was not an easy one; it was marked with years of introspection, of challenging and reshaping my own fears, and slowly stepping towards the contentment I knew I deserved. I’ve walked this path, stumbling, learning, and growing, and it’s precisely because of this personal journey that I decided to become a coach.
As a Mind Mastery and Transformational Coach and a certified NLP practitioner, I’ve used my experiences and insights to guide many others through this transformative process. My purpose is to shorten your journey, to provide the support and understanding I once yearned for, and to help you navigate these complexities without having to struggle as I did.
I don’t want you to spend years feeling entrapped by your fears when you could be living the life you deserve. And so, if you’re ready for change, if you’re ready to face your fears and embrace your potential, don’t hesitate to reach out. It’s an act of courage to seek help, and together, we can speed up your journey towards self-discovery, liberation, and contentment. Your transformation is within reach, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
With all my heart, I hope these words offer you some comfort, and a spark of hope, knowing you’re not alone. If you’re ready to take a leap towards transformation, if you find yourself identifying with the fears and limited beliefs discussed here and feel the need for guidance, I encourage you to connect with me.
You can may contact me at cherie@liberatedsoul.ca
Looking forward to connecting with you soon, and remember, you are capable of so much more. Let’s take the first step towards your liberation together.
Till next time,
Cherie
Cherie Bassiri is a transformation and mindset coach, NLP, Reiki Practitioner, and an entrepreneur. With her tried-and-true methods and proven strategies, she empowers her clients to achieve clarity and confidence, enabling them to bravely embrace the transitions to the next chapter of their lives. Reach out to her for personalized coaching tailored to your unique journey.
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